Yeah so lately i've been keeping to myself a little bit more, and sticking with a couple of friends more and just getting to know them more. People are so interesting sometimes. They think they are always right and try to prove their self righteousness and in doing so they make themselves just look like idiots. Enough about that though.
So when is it not 'too' far to love someone? How far is someone able to go without being mistaken for obsessed? Is love just an obsession with feeling? And why is it so creepy if you like someone enough to have them on your mind constantly? To constantly be worried about their well being and not if they look good or not that day? When has it been obsession to be worried about their happiness and to make sure they are OK? I really don't think that liking someone and stalking someone are the same thing. Really. Do people just say those kinds of things to bug you? Because they are jealous inside that they don't have someone like that? Is it really that fun to tease someone about it when in reality you could be hurting them? I don't understand that concept at all. So i'll stop talking about it.
Is there one way to get someone to like you? People and things claim that "this is the way to get him/her!" "do you and they will fall in love with you" or give you 'advice' but is this advice really what could help? Everything and everyone is so unique in their own way, so why do people say false claims? Idiots? Do people really want to ruin other's happiness?
So an interesting subject came up today. Anything anyone has done in their life only do it for their well-being and to benefit themselves. Is that really true? I guess it could be if you digged deep enough.. I guess maybe that could be true. People care about other people because they don't want them to die or be unhappy because it would make them unhappy therefore they wouldn't be benefitting unless they did something about it.
K done for now lol
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Wow... that seemed kind of pessimist... haha. Have you ever thought that maybe there are people out there that want to help people because they want to help people? I know it's a long shot, and there might be some kind of self-giving in the end, but I believe that there are poeple that want to make others happy because they enjoy seeing others happy. I mean, think of the people that will give up their plans for the day just to go do something for someone else. If people wanted to just do things for others to benifit themselves only, would that be happening?
And... I know that it may seem off when people give you advice about how to "get" someone that you like. Though, you have to think about it. The advice that these people are giving you are the things that worked for them, or the things that they have seen worked before. It's all they know. And, also, 'advice' is not something you have to take, it's the other person's opinion, and when they say, "do that, and she/he'll love you forever!" or whatnot, it's their own opinion. You can choose to follow it or not. That's what advice is.
I often wonder about that, too. How far can you go before it's considered 'obssession'? I don't know, and personally, I don't really care. If I care about someone so much so that I wish for their happiness, and I think about them constantly, then good for me. But, again, I don't know.
Well, just like you, I'm just ranting, and you can listen to me or not. Whatever, haha. But, Happy Holidays!! <3
see they enjoy seeing others happy though so it benefits them. it doesn't have to be a pessimistic thing at all ha ha it was just a really interesting thought from drama class hahaha and yeah i know advice is that way and yeah it is what people have experienced or worked for them i realize but i'm just idk talkin about the people who shove it in your face ha ha.. and idk it can't be obsession to want someone's happiness and it can't be obsession to want to be with them.. it can't be. just can't.
i realize love is different for everyone and that is probably why it's so diverse, but can it really just be obsession in reality but love in our minds? i mean you can look at something and think it's romantic or just plain creepy and you can do that about a lot of things, and maybe liking someone is the same way i mean really someone who doesn't experience feelings of 'passion' and 'love' maybe would think it's just creepy and obsession but does that make them happy? ha ha like really. maybe it's not just a question of whether or not it's obsession, maybe it's a question of true happiness. a truth in the pool of lies. i mean, love is just a lie right? it's just chemicals in your body telling you you want someone cause your body thinks it's gonna have sex with them. hahaha that's what aaron told me HAHA anyway. i guess if you really had no romanticism in you then yeah that will fit you perfectly, but idk i think it's kind of depressing, but if it makes ya happy i guess. maybe we just love people enough to make ourselves happy and that's why love is different for everyone and not expressed in the same way. whatever makes you happy, won't make someone else happy. ah.. dontcha just love these kinds of contradictions? ha ha
WOOT i'm done cause i'm ranting again LOL :D have a nice day.
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